latest
I just ordered new business cards, and I look refreshed. But maybe that’s because I used my ten-year-old retouched photo instead of a current one.
Read moreIn 1859, Charles Darwin changed how people viewed themselves and their place in the universe by setting forth his theory of evolution in his famous work, On the Origin of Species. Darwin proposed that all living creatures, including man, are descendants of some ancient primordial form of life that developed and differentiated through a selection mechanism. Darwin theorized that mutations occur within any given species, creating slight changes over time. Most often, these mutations are not beneficial and are not passed on to the next generation, while other mutations are deemed detrimental and are therefore considered a hindrance. On rare occasions, however, these mutations do provide an advantage to the species, and it is the natural selection of these advantageous traits that Darwin termed natural selection. In his own words, he wrote, “I have called this principle, by which each slight variation, if useful, is preserved, by the term of Natural Selection.” According to Darwin, natural selection becomes the driving force behind simple primordial species becoming more and more advanced through successive generations, eventually evolving into completely different and new species altogether. This is how Darwin proposed man’s descent from a gooey blob in a warm little pond over thousands of generations. However, it is important to note that the key to Darwinian evolution is time; lots of it! Evolutionists argue that given enough time, almost anything is possible, including the evolution of human beings. The probabilities, it is argued, are endless—given enough time.
Read moreAs the soft rains came down this past Thursday morning, memories flooded as I remembered a place that was part of my life: my former home when I also had adjacent 23 acres that included a 10-acre rocky, wooded canyon.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: My daughter is asking me to apologize to her boyfriend, “Harry,” for yelling at him when I was helping them move six years ago. (I had traveled 250 miles to help.) The day of the move, Harry didn’t take the day off work, so he wasn’t there to help. (They had a second-floor unit with no elevator.) When he finally did show up, he proceeded to slowwalk taking out the recycling stuff.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: My 19-year-old niece didn’t finish high school and has been in and out of rehab for years. She’s about to leave a residential program and is looking for a place to live. Her parents have implemented “house rules” she doesn’t like, notably staying drug-free and away from her boyfriend.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: I recently bought a first-floor condo because I am an older woman with a knee disability. Otherwise, I would have purchased a unit on the second floor of this two-story condo complex. I am only here part time because my husband is not ready for retirement.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: My husband of 4 1/2 years had an old girlfriend he was on and off with for 15 years. She passed away while he was in prison. We got married three months after he was released. The thing is, when he sleeps, almost every night, he says her name and how much he loves her. He says because he’s doing it in his sleep, he doesn’t know he’s doing it. It seems to upset him that I’m upset. He doesn’t want to hurt me. What can I do to deal with it or get him to stop doing it? -- DREADS THE BED IN COLORADO DEAR DREADS: Your husband was on and off with his late girlfriend much longer than he has been married to you. Old habits die hard. If he wakes you when this happens, don’t hesitate to gently wake him. If he asks why you did it, explain that he was talking in his sleep. (Do not be specific about what.) Then try to remember that she is history, and you are right next to him. ** DEAR ABBY: I’m a senior widow who has been dating an older man for a year now. He’s caring and thoughtful and has many good qualities, but one thing he does is creating difficulty for me. He constantly stares at other women. I’ve talked with him about a “five-second rule,” but he doesn’t hear me. He told me he was raised by his mother and grandmother and that’s why he’s attracted to women in general. He says it doesn’t mean anything.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: I have a 54-year-old profoundly disabled, non-verbal child who is in a group home. I have been advocating for her since birth, when we learned she had suffered severe brain damage. The umbilical cord was wrapped around her neck for so long that the damage was irreparable. My first husband couldn’t handle it and left us.
Read more